With an open mind, heart, and vagina Mindy Raf demolishes the romantic comedy and the roles we play in it in her critically acclaimed solo show NOT THE ONE: a love story. Honing the perfect blend of her stand-up, storytelling, and musical theater chops, Raf demystifies love, loss, and sexuality, and engages her vulnerable, razor-sharp storytelling style to face the complexities of modern love and leave us asking, “could I ever do that?”

Written and performed by Mindy Raf
Directed by Tara Elliott

"Barrier-breaking...inventive, sexually liberated (and liberating) one-woman show...cleverly conceived and engagingly kooky."
★★★★ THE EDINBURGH REPORTER

"... cheeky and infectious. ...intensely loveable, painfully relatable humour. And her dive into the romantic story of how she met her significant other is almost as moving as her powerful message about bisexuality."
★★★★ ED FEST MAGAZINE

"Finally someone is bringing humor and—most importantly —normality to parts of the human psychology and emotional life that are far too often romanticized, or even fetishized.” 
THEATRE IS EASY

“The stand-up queen of self deprecation . . .LGBT Best Bet.”
★★★★★ TIME OUT NEW YORK